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- Generally friendly, happy, bubbly, quasi-flirty
-- Slightly sexy body language
-- Physically attractive
--- Exercises regularly
--- Formerly slightly overweight, yet still attractive
-- Rises to the challenge of an independent lifestyle
-- Prefers to be a very trusting / trustworthy person
-- Responds well to affection / affirmation
--- Will likely respond to affirmation, even when angry 
--- Very receptive to non-sexual affection
--- Easily tempted by sexual pleasure, when not angry

- Childhood trauma
-- Abandoned at the age of 3
--- Seems to appreciate adopted family
-- Possibly affects overall emotional health
-- Possibly affects perception of sex
-- Possibly affects perception of long-term relationships

- Multiple former marriages to men
-- Historically permissive of "unfair" relationships, at the expense of herself
--- Relieved when the male partners expressed a desire to end the unfair relationship
--- Unlikely to have ended them, herself
-- Likely attempting to recognize and "move beyond" this tendency to tolerate unfairness

- Has had previous sexual experiences with women
-- This was many years ago
-- Claims to no longer be bisexual
--- Possible that she is now genuinely only interested in men

- Indifferent toward having an orgasm during intercourse
-- Demands emotional intimacy during intercourse
-- Argumentatively contemptuous toward the suggestion that women should orgasm during intercourse
--- Struggles to process any suggestion that there might be a balance between physical pleasure and emotional intimacy
--- Has occasionally had an orgasm during intercourse, but usually does not

- Does not receive pleasure from G-spot fingering
-- Claims it is "uncomfortable pressure"
-- Possible (?) slight physical derangement of vulval / vaginal area

- Clitoris is very sensitive
-- Orgasms unusually quickly from oral sex / fingers

- Very unusually "wet" when aroused
-- Body is possibly not receiving sexual satisfaction on a schedule that matches physical hormone levels
--- Seems to shrug off the possibility that her body "needs" sexual pleasure
--- Masturbates very infrequently

- Short when angry
-- Absolutely unable to calm self down
-- Frequently uses "Stop talking" / "Don't say another word"
-- Struggles to validate feelings of others
-- Yet claims to value validation when happy
-- Quick to reflexively accuse the other party of "gaslighting"
-- Will continue aggressive verbal arguments in the presence of restaurant waiters
-- Latent upset emotions can remain for several days

- Would benefit from therapy/counseling
-- Anger management
--- (Stoic philosophy / Seneca)
-- Communication
--- (Validation of others' feelings)

- Would benefit from mental health evaluation
-- Specific concern: Borderline Personality Disorder

- Needs good examples
-- Especially of men
-- Especially in the context of a long-term relationship
-- Would benefit from female friends who respectfully challenge her opinions, and set a good conflict management standard

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