Marriage can be a joy, but it can also shatter your heart, especially if you believe you've come to the end of your relationship. There is no easy way to decide to divorce, and everyone's experience through uncoupling is unique. If you're thinking of making this difficult decision, you need to figure out if your relationship is so strained that it can't be saved. 
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